Summer flings aren’t just for teenagers anymore. More and more married men are getting in on the steamy summer fun, and why not? After all, there’s nothing more fun or more relaxing than a trip to the beach with someone hot by your side. The rise of vacations is making hooking up during the summer months easier than ever, but did you know that a summer fling could actually improve the happiness of your marriage? Here’s how.
Mood Boost for You
You get a huge mood boost out of an affair. You don’t need us to tell you that. That’s the whole reason that men go in for the whole risky business. What most men don’t stop to consider is that so long as they pass it on then a happier you means a happier wife. Allow your good mood to make your eager to help and please her and she’ll be smiling too. A good mood boost could be just the thing to help you help your marriage out of a rough patch.
Takes the Pressure Off
When you haven’t had sex for awhile it can seem like you never will again. Everything in the marriage comes down to whether or not you’re going to get laid tonight. Having an affair will actually help you get sex off of your mind. When you get that pressure out of the way you can focus on the other things that you and your wife like to do together. This eases your worry and stress and makes the relationship between you easy and comfortable again.
Reminds You Why You Love Your Wife
Being around another woman for a long period of time will remind you why you love your wife. At first your mistress will be able to do no wrong. That’s normal. Spend more than three hours with her and you’ll start noticing her little habits that bug you. Maybe she taps her foot or her fingers, or picks her teeth, or actually never shuts up now that you think about it. You’ll notice all the little habits that your wife doesn’t have, or which you have gotten used to from her but refuse to take from anyone else, and everything clears up for you. You’ll remember why you thought the two of you could be forever in the first place.
Natural Ending Point
The end of summer is a natural ending point for a lot of things. The days turn cooler, the leaves fall, and you and your lover can part ways easier because the start of fall is the time for endings. In less poetic terms it also often means that you can run out of places to go together, and that if you started your affair in the late spring you’ve had just about three months together. There are some very natural end points to relationships, which occur at the one month, three month, and eight month period to name a few. Being together for three months mean that you’re going to have a nicer break up.