Having your wife take a sudden and unhealthy interest in your phone and your text messages can be dangerous, especially if you text your mistress at all. Your wife may be suspicious of you and that might be the reason why she’s snooping, or she might just be unable to help herself even if she isn’t suspicious. Either way you don’t want her to find something that you would rather keep a secret, so it is important to know how to keep her from snooping on your texts too often. It may not be possible to stop entirely without making her think that you have something to hide, but there are still options for you to pursue if anything like this occurs.
Try to Establish Boundaries
“Establishing boundaries will be helpful”
Establishing your boundaries within your marriage is always important, and though it might be a little bit late, you may want to consider talking to her about things like this. You might want to attempt convincing her that she might stumble upon secret birthday plans for her or something similar, if she doesn’t take to the idea that she should be respecting your privacy. It can be difficult to do this without making her even more suspicious but you should at least try to give it a shot so that she doesn’t always reach for your phone as soon as you walk out of the room. It is worth at least trying to do this so that she knows how you feel about it, if nothing else, because it may lead to a bargaining chip for you later on.
Using a Burner Phone
“Buy another phone to chat and talk to your mistress”
If nothing else, you may need to resort to buying an extra phone to use for your mistress. This isn’t ideal, but sometimes it is your only real option if your wife is dead set on snooping on all of your texts. Of course if she finds your extra phone the jig is up anyway, but it can definitely offer you another level of security and it will be safer than using your normal phone to text your mistress. It can also be a little bit pricy, but if you can afford it then this is a good option for sure. It’s also a bit less obvious than just having texts from an unnamed contact on your regular phone.
Keeping It out of Texts to Begin With
If you don’t want to get caught texting your mistress, do not text her to begin with. This leaves no evidence on your phone so you really don’t have anything to worry about if your wife starts snooping on your phone. In fact, she can snoop to her hearts content because she will never find anything and you’re in the clear. If you have any other way of contacting your mistress then this is honestly the best option when it comes to avoiding being caught by a snooping and suspicious wife. It might be annoying, but it will definitely keep you much safer than anything else.