Cheating isn’t something that most guys plan to do. It’s an impulse. That said, guys generally only give into the impulse if their existing love life sucks. There’s a right and a wrong time to give into that impulse. If the sex you’re having with your spouse is actually pretty good and there are no problems in your marriage, it’s the wrong time. The right time depends on your state of mind. If you’re mentally prepared to commit adultery, go ahead and do it. If you’ve got a lot of doubts or worries, cheating is going to stress you out even more.
You’re Having No Sex
If your sex life consists only of your hand and your dick, you’re probably primed and ready to find someone else to bang. No sex in a marriage usually means there are greater problems than your spouse having a non-existent sex drive. Fixing those problems is going to take a lot of time and will cause a lot of stress. The temporary and far more entertaining option is to find another woman who’s ready and willing to get freaky with you. This obviously isn’t a fix. In fact, it’s going to make things much worse in the end. But if you need to get laid and your wife’s being a cold fish, go and find another woman who’s ready to give you what you need.
The Sex You’re Having Suddenly Turned Bad
It’s normal for sex in a marriage to become stale over time. Too much familiarity can make things boring. If sex between you went bad suddenly without any warning, it’s a different matter. If nothing’s changed about how you feel, chances are something’s changed on her end. This could be anything from an emotional crisis to her cheating on you. Regardless of the cause, if you went from having great sex with your wife to sex that barely passes as intimacy with no explanation from her, it might be time for you to look for a new partner.
You Know She’s Cheating
If you know she’s cheating on you, you’ll never have a better time to do the same to her. Do it out of revenge or just because you feel like it. The fact that she’s unfaithful to you is like a free pass for you to be just as unfaithful. You don’t need to feel guilt over betraying her. You don’t need to worry about repercussions if she finds out. So go ahead, find a woman who’s hot for you, and have a good time just like your wife did.
There’s No Connection Between You two, Anymore
Marriages can stall over time. Spouses drift apart and passions die. This is usually the reason that most guys cheat. If you and your wife no longer have anything in common and rarely communicate, chances are your marriage is over. If neither of you care what the other does, having an affair isn’t going to be the crime it is in a healthy marriage. It’ll be a way for you to get some passion and lust back into your life and start feeling good again.