Being married can start to leave you with all sorts of habits that you might not even notice you’re starting to fall into. While there is no shame in this and there’s nothing really wrong with it, having the wrong habits can start to seriously affect your chances with women and it can make things a lot harder than they need to be. Finding a mistress will not be easy if you have bad habits from your marriage, so knowing what kinds of habits you can develop over time will help you know how to kick them. It’s definitely in your best interests to kick these habits so that you can attract more women to have affairs with.
Not Caring about Your Appearance
“Start caring about your appearance”
It can be quite easy to become complacent and lazy with your appearance when you’re married. After all, you’ve already snared a woman and you don’t have to worry as much about what you look like. You certainly aren’t worrying about impressing women – until you want to have an affair, that is. If you let yourself be lazy about your appearance and you don’t care what you look like, it will make your search for the perfect mistress a lot harder than it needs to be. You need to star improving your appearance slowly so that you can attract the women you want to hook up with, but don’t do anything too quickly lest your wife become suspicious of your changes. Come up with some kind of excuse, perhaps that you want to get back to how you used to be, and you should be set.
Being Lazy in the Bedroom
You can also become complacent in the bedroom when you are married. The passion and the spark that you had with your wife can fade quickly, which might be a major contributing factor to why you want to have an affair to begin with. If you have become complacent and boring in bed, you need to kick this habit quickly. Having boring sex with a mistress will not be any better than having boring sex with your wife. You need to accept that it’s time to focus on foreplay and making her feel good yet again so you can really get her going. It may take some work but it will really make all of the sex much better, something you likely need.
Not Bothering with Romance
“Do not underestimate the power of romance”
Just like passion can fade, romance starts to fade quickly enough if you let it. While this might not be that big of an issue, it is still to your benefit to try and kick this habit when you want to have a mistress. You do need to woo her slightly, which means taking the time to romance her a little bit and making her feel special. If you have become complacent with romance in your marriage, it’s time to start getting back into the game and learning how to bust out all the romantic moves you might have long forgotten. It will definitely be worth it.