The scariest thing about cheating is worrying that your wife will find out. Most of us do not want our wives finding out that we’re messing with someone else on the side. This usually ends up with her having a broken heart, lots of marriage counseling, and even divorce. When you want to decrease your chances of getting caught, simply plan ahead and save yourself some trouble.
Set Your Hookup at a Later Date
“Stay alert and don’t get caught”
One of the best things you can do when it comes planning ahead to decrease your chances of getting caught is to set up your date at a later time. When you find a woman that you want to date on the side, you will have to make sure that you tell her that you are a busy man with several previous engagements. Tell her that you will have some free time next week, and then set up a date and time that you will be able to commit to.
Once you have everything settled with your planned date, you will then need to tell your wife that your job, or something else that you’re involved has fallen behind and has asked for you to help out. You will have to make sure that she knows about this. Do not seem uncertain or like you don’t know exactly what days and times you will have to help out at your fake engagement. Your wife will trust you more if you tell her in advance where you will be and what you will be doing. This also reduces her chances of calling you, especially if you tell her that you will be working.
Take the Day Off
“Enjoy a spa date with your mistress”
Another great way to cheat on your wife without her finding out is to plan it when she is at work or someplace other than at home. You will have to be extremely careful about this to make sure there are no sudden surprises of her showing up. We recommend you hooking up with your other women at someplace other than your house, and possibly in the next city closest to you. Try not to go to too many public areas as someone who knows your wife may spot you. Instead, try for her house or even at a hotel or motel. Make sure you use a prepaid credit card for the motel. You don’t want you wife asking you about strange charges on your card.
Since you’ll be taking the day off, you should try to make the most of your day. If the two of you do decide to go out, try to visit places that aren’t extremely busy during the times that you visit them.
Planning ahead can make the idea of cheating a lot more exciting and a lot less stressful. When your wife feels like she can trust you, and that you have no secrets from her, you won’t have to worry about her questioning your every move. Before you start cheating, make sure you take some time to thoroughly plan out your hookup. You’ll be happy that you did.