“A suspicious wife is hard to handle”
A suspicious wife can make things a lot harder for you when you are having an affair. You have to tread carefully and be cautious about basically everything that you do. It can be a real pain and you might not know what to do about it. Knowing how to tell if your partner is spying on you might not make dealing with the situation that much easier, but it will definitely tell you when you need to back off and slow things down with your mistress or at least be more cautious with your communications in the future. Note that these may also be innocent things, but sometimes they can be definite signs of suspicion.
She’s Much More Interested in Your Daily Life than Usual
If your wife used to go days on end without asking you how your day went, and then she suddenly shows a surprising amount of curiosity and interest in your everyday comings and goings, this can be a sign that something is amiss. She may not be spying on you yet, but she may be suspicious and trying to figure out if there is something she should be wondering about. If you notice her starting to pay close attention to everything that you do, it may be time to cool things off with your mistress slightly, at least just until your wife’s suspicion abates. Your wife may be trying to figure out if you’re going off to spend time with someone else, so meetings with your mistress may need to take a backburner for a while until you know you are safe again.
She Asks to Use Your Phone
“Her interest in your phone is something to worry about”
This can be innocent, but it can also mean that she is trying to read your texts or check your calls. This is a fairly obvious tactic, which means that it can be innocent more often than not. You might find her snooping on your texts without her asking to use your phone, which is much more often an indicator of suspicion. Either way, if she takes a sudden interest in your phone she might be trying to spy on your texts to see if you have been texting any new women. In this case, you may want to consider using a burner phone or having other means of contacting your mistress.
She Seems to Be Using the Computer More Often
Obviously this is fairly vague, but if she’s using the computer a lot and she isn’t the type to use it that often at all, it could be a sign that she’s trying to snoop. She might be trying to snoop on your emails or social media sites, especially if she knows the passwords or will be able to guess the passwords. You will have to observe her carefully if she seems to be showing this kind of sketchy behavior, because you can never be sure what exactly she is doing unless you catch her in the act. Either way, keep an eye out.