“Convince her with your well made realistic stories”
Having a good cover up story to help prevent your wife from getting suspicious is hugely important when having an affair. Having a good cover will help you from being discovered and it can also make your wife less suspicious in general. However, it isn’t always easy to know what might make a good cover up story. Knowing what makes the best cover stories will help you be more successful when trying to conceal your affair and it will definitely help you have a better and less stressful affair. You will still have to come up with your own excuses and stories, but these tips will help you do so with ease.
Integrating Your Story into Your Normal Life
It is greatly important that your story and excuse fits in with your normal life. This way it will seem less conspicuous to your wife to begin with, since she won’t think it’s so strange and out of the ordinary. Trying to convince her that you have taken up a completely new hobby or that you’ve been going out with friends you haven’t seen for years is definitely not going to work. There is a reason why most guys try to convince their wives that they are working later hours, and that’s because it fits into their daily life and schedule already. Be careful with your excuses and cover up stories so that they are believable when compared to your average, everyday life, and your wife may not become suspicious to begin with.
Having Plenty of Back Up
If you can rope any of your friends or acquaintances into being in on your excuses and cover up stories, you should try to recruit them to your cause and get them to back you up. Having plenty of people who will vouch for you and what story you are claiming will make the entire thing much more believable, especially if your wife is suspicious of you. She will be tempted to ask people that you both know, and if you can get any of them to back you up, it will make the entire thing much easier on you. Having enough backup can ease your wife’s suspicions completely, so it is definitely worth the little bit of extra effort that it will take to accomplish.
Having Some Kind of Alibi
“Time to create a fake alibi”
It’s important to have an alibi just in case you cannot get anybody to back you up. While this is obviously going to be a fake alibi, since you were with your mistress at the time, it is still important to be able to claim you were somewhere else. This can also tie into having backup, but it just needs to be convincing enough for your wife not to question. Working late is the easiest way to go about this, but you may also want to try coming up with some other kind of story that places you somewhere else at the time in question. This will help you stay safe and avoid major suspicion.