“Don’t try to lead her on for too long”
Let’s face it-sometimes after years of being married (even if it’s happy), your wife just doesn’t do it for you anymore. Whether it’s a stagnant sex life or just not wanting to be around her, you might be ready for a change of pace. However, this doesn’t mean that you need to get into the dirty business of lawyers, alimony, and all that other stuff that comes with a nasty breakup. Instead, having a little fling on the side can spice things up and keep you interested, all while keeping things cool with your wife. Just be sure that you do things right or else you’ll be in a spot that few guys envy once the shit hits the fan.
Keep It Distant with Your Fling
The first part of leading on your wife and getting away with it starts with keeping things distant with your fling. Don’t be that guy that tries to hook up with his wife’s best friend. It never ends well. Instead, check out personal ads and adult sites that can let you meet someone who doesn’t know your friends or your family. This way, you can cut down on some of the risk of getting caught if your fling gets cold feet.
Disposable Communication is the Way to Go
“Use a separate phone to communicate with your mistress”
Taking this a step farther is how you get in touch with your fling. While using your cell phone to call and text between hookups is the easy (and lazy) way of doing things, you’re just begging to have your wife grab your phone and see all the dirty pics and texts. The easiest way of doing this is to pick up one of those cheap disposable phones at the convenience store or gas station. This way you can stay in control of communications and toss it in the trash if your wife starts getting suspicious.
Scheduling is a Big Deal
Of course, actually getting together is what it’s all about, right? While most guys just use the lame excuse of “getting together with the boys,” you can do better. To really cover your bases and keep your wife off your back, start doing something else routinely before you even start having a fling. This means doing something like joining a gym and telling everyone you go three nights a week, when you only really go one or twice. By having this little cover well in advance, it won’t seem like it’s coming out of the blue to your wife when you start spending time away from home. If you’ve already got something like this going, then you’re ahead of the game.
Spend Time with Your Wife
It might not make a lot of sense to spend time with the wife when you’ve been reading about shacking up with someone else on the side. Who says you can’t have the best of both worlds? By making some extra time for the wife every once in a while, you can keep her happy and complacent, all while maybe even getting a little more in the bedroom after you put the kids to bed. What guy wouldn’t want this kind of deal?