Women are always in demand on dating sites. You know the drill: men are a dime a dozen, and women are the only ones holding any dimes at the end of the day.
This goes double on fling and hookup sites. Women are always going to get hundreds more messages than men, and they’re not going to have to send any of them first.
You’re going to have to make a good first impression.
If these women are seeing hundreds of guys daily competing for their attention, it means you’ll have to work a bit harder to stand out from the rest of the slavering male throng.
Yes, it’s unfair. But so is going to a bar and finding that every guy in the place is trying to buy a drink for the same woman-and at least on fling sites, you’re going to be able to send “drinks” to dozens of women at once.
If you want to have success with married women, you have to think your messages through before you send them. “Hey nice tits” isn’t going to get you any love from the ladies.
Your first message should never be explicit.
You might think you’re standing out by being “bold” or “irreverent,” but the truth is that she’s getting dozens of messages saying the exact same thing every day. You actually stand out more by being understated and classy than you do by being racy.
That’s why you need to be careful, and think out what you’re saying beforehand. Don’t forget that she’s on this site looking for something special, something she’s missing.
She’s probably looking for something her marriage can’t provide.
If you’re on a site specifically to have a married fling, it’s not surprising that the lady you’re with will be as well. This woman is going to want to experience something she can’t get at home.
And yes, “Nice ass sugar” is something she can get at home. It isn’t as if insensitive catcalls are in demand from women, no matter what builders on the corner would have you believe.
Making her feel special is easy.
All you have to do in order to have success with married girls is to make them feel like their husbands never do. Yes, you have to do that starting with the very first message. Fortunately, it’s not difficult if you know what you’re about.
Reference her profile.
All you have to do is glance at this girl’s profile, and you’ll easily be able to make yourself stand out. Most blokes just send the same spam message to dozens of girls at once.
All you have to do is send her a message asking more about her hobbies. “How long have you been playing football, love?” will get you a dozen times more messages than a message simply saying, “hot.”
We know. We’ve been there.
Girls love feeling like they’re special. Take advantage of this, and do yourself a favor in the long run by not acting like an idiot.