Dating online is one of the most freeform sports there is, and far be it from us to try and make you think you need to behave in a certain way to get laid. Of course, there are sometimes when it’s good to have, if not rules, at least guidelines for how to behave.
Your three words to live by are secrecy, speed, and disposability.
If you can bear these things in mind, it will keep your fling life swinging a lot longer than if you’re inclined to just wing it. That’s not a lot of consideration you need to give.
If you want to know how to have more success with married women, take it from the experts. Nailing this trinity is going to make your life a hell of a lot easier in the long run.
The best way to keep having flings while you’re married is to prevent everyone from knowing that’s what you’re doing. Make sure you’re not an idiot about it, and you’ll be able to take advantage of our married dating tactics for many years to come.
We honestly shouldn’t have to tell you that secrecy is important. However, this doesn’t mean you should suddenly start acting like a secret agent with something to hide.
The best defense is a good offense in sports. In married life, the best defense is acting as if nothing has changed. Wives don’t want to believe anything has changed, so they’ll go along with that idea as long as you don’t give them any reason not to.
Quick flings are a lot less easy to detect than long ones. This is one of the best and easiest things you can do to keep yourself discreet. As long as you’re getting in and out fast, metaphorically speaking, is to be quicker about it than you would with a normal relationship.
That way, no one has a chance to build up evidence over time, and there’s less of a chance of falling into an easy-to-detect pattern. This is something you want to avoid at all costs.
There’s no way to say this without sounding like an asshole: you want a relationship you can just get rid of if it goes south. Don’t fall in love for the long-term. We’re not saying to grab a girl off the street then dump her, either. We just mean not to get attached for the long-term, because, guess what? You already have a woman for that. If you stay with this girl for too long, you’re just going to start thinking of her as a second wife, and you don’t want to do that.
Aim for three, be satisfied with two.
Secrecy is sort of unavoidable, and you have to have it if you’re going to make any sort of affair work even for a week. However, you don’t always have to stick to the other two rules.
For example, if you want a long-term and still casual fling and you know you can both handle it, dispense with disposability. Or if you have a lot of time to yourself on a business trip out of town, ignore the rule about speed. Make the three rules work for you.