To Sext or Not to Sext: Deciding Boundaries for Your Fling

One of the hardest parts of a relationship is deciding how serious it’s going to be and how far it’s going to go. This is doubly true of relationships that are on the side. You can’t have a public affair, so by nature the boundaries have to be different from that of a common relationship. Where they should be, however, is a subject that some people feel more strongly about then others. When you’re deciding how far you and certain sexy someone are going to go follow these steps to know where to stop. Assess the Risk The first thing that you must do is assess the risk. How likely is it that your wife is going to catch you cheating? Have you cheated before? Does your wife snoop a lot, or is she trusting? Do you go out of town on business often? All of these affect the risk factor. There’s always some risk in keeping secrets from someone who knows you well, so expect that there will be some problems with this. When you have a good idea of how likely it is that you’re going to get caught you can decide how far apart you need to keep your real life and your affair life. Stick to…

The Least Convincing Cover-up Stories

“Try to be realistic in telling lies” Having a good cover up story is important when you start to have an affair because you need a way to explain your way out of any situation your wife might become suspicious of. Having a good cover story is important for your discretion, and it will let you spend more time with your mistress if you do it right. However, there are some cover stories that are just not going to be convincing in the least. Knowing the least convincing cover-ups will help you avoid making a big mistake when you try to explain where you’ve been going or how much time you’ve been spending out of the house to your suspicious wife. Stories That Don’t Fit with Your Schedule If you try to come up with some kind of cover-up story that clearly does not fit with your schedule, you’re going to be much less successful and your wife is probably going to start getting suspicious fairly quickly. You need to try and make your story and excuses match up to your schedule, because if she knows your schedule well enough she will definitely be able to tell if you’re not telling the truth. This is one of the easiest ways…

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